It is not slavery for a wife to cook for her husband, Executive Director of the Salt and Light Ministries, Joyce Aryee has said.
“I don’t think cooking for your husband can be seen as slavery”, Ms Aryee said, adding: “No, I don’t think so.”
A lot of debate about the subject has gone on on social media following certain sentiments expressed by feminists and the general public.
Ms Aryee, however, said nothing stops men from helping their wives in the kitchen.
“As a man, you can help your wife in the kitchen or just be around to chat with her.
“If your wife comes back from work and she is tired, and she must hurriedly prepare food and all that at least the man must go into the kitchen and stand by her and help her out,” Ms Aryee told Starr FM.
Source: Class News
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in general women have the ability and the skills of cooking than men....Never say the kitchen is not the place for a woman likewise when there is a manual work/changing of bulbs/driving my wife to the saloon becomes slavery to me. the man remains that head/dominant figure in the house that's all....not very surprise at these so called feminist bcos things are changing and society must quickly become abreast with them....our society these days is breading lazy uneducated women....they go all length to get the highest education but come out uneducated...today's woman spent the kitchen time behind the mirror and sees cooking for the husband as punishment....i never saw that coming but can only happen in society where values, tradition and culture has been abandoned.....ask yourself how many women along the street forgets to wear makeups and the time allocated for that....now we take them from shows/food joint/restaurant n introduce them to our parents as those we want to spend our lives with.....sometime back the culture was your supposed wife will spend some time with your family for her to be known and trained better but today things have change.....My wife an educated and trained teacher will always ask what i want to eat not what she wants me to eat,,,,,come to think of it that's not slavery but respect and submissiveness which is missing in our young girls of today all these excuses are bcos they were not taught by their busy mothers who have spoil them or they simply dont know how to cook simple......for me if u cannot prepare the Palmnut Soup (aBEINKWAN)then u have failed as a Gh lady and for that matter a wife.
Those feminist are they married at all? they should wait when they get a husband they shouldn't cook 4 them, they will see their smoothness level.another woman will cook for the man simple. bamm
Auntie Joyce, well said. But what you call 'chat with her', within it, might be a comment and immediately, you are no more wanted in the kitchen. Truth is, there is rather peace in the house when a man learns to stay away from the wife when in the kitchen. Being in the kitchen with her only works at the time she is a girlfriend.
If you are a married woman and you think cooking is slavery don't worry just wait when another woman start cooking for your husband. that will be your end. simple question if cooking is slavery for the woman what about the man?
Ey3 morbor!What do they want?
Please don't entertain certain topics. Is pure nosenseeeee for any women to say is slavery cooking for your husband. Why are we fighting against God's word. Why are we entertaining stupidityyyyyyyy.
Only women who don't have cooking skills may want their husbands to do the cooking for the family. In Ghanaian culture, girls are mostly trained/educated to do cooking and take care of the home. My wife would be embarrassed for others to see that I do most of the household chores.
You see, there are so many things in our household which women do better than men likewise what men do better than women. But it seems we messed up along the line and underrated women's enormous and very critical roll they played in our households.The then, Society overrated and put the men's roll just like that of a ruling dynasty.Today we use affirmative clauses to correct some of the mistakes we undelibrately made. Otherwise, when a woman or a man cooks for her or his Partner is not a big deal, it is just a mutual understanding and respect to keep a healthy and harmonious home. But not to be tagged as slavery. Where I disagreed with the prominent lawyer Ace Ankomah is his assumption that the Status quo must prevail over any mutual arrangement to take away the man's dominant roll in our homes. A woman may have the quality to equip and decorate the kitchen but it doen't mean she belongs to the kitchen.
WHEN A REAL WOMAN SPEAKS,THERE IS SILENCE. THANKS MUM.
Mama Joyce, you are a true Mother and God sent. This so call feminists are gradually destroying home and marriages. They are the agents of the antichrist that the devil is using to break marriages.