When a lamb audaciously wakes up a sleeping lion at its cave, then it is equally prepared well for a hot chase and when a handshake goes beyond the elbow, it is no longer a handshake but an invitation to a wrestling bout. These two proverbial statements were told to me by my late father who was a farmer before he departed to the land of the spirits. They were meant to guide me on who I should choose my fights with and when I should understand that a person is inviting me to a broil.