A man is a man whether he’s a bachelor or a spouse
A woman is fully validated as one when she is made a wife
A boy is not necessarily raised to be a good husband
A girl is consciously trained to be a helper and homemaker
All that is expected of a man is to provide the ring and the babies
A woman is expected to make the marriage work and raise the kids well
While the groom is tapped on the back for taking the step to join the table of men
The bride is prayed for to receive wisdom to keep the marriage on its feet
For a man, marriage is a rite of passage
For a woman, it is a huge favor done her
A cheating husband is considered an expected flaw in biological behavior
A cheating wife is inexcusably flawed; a bane to the institution of marriage
A cheating husband feels entitled to be forgiven; it couldn’t be helped
A cheating wife to be forgiven is considered a favor; and is constantly reminded so
A divorced man is sympathized with and deserves a second chance at love
A divorced woman is a failure; must be investigated before committing to her
For a man, marriage should be a paradise where he is worshipped
For a woman, marriage is a battlefield to keep all opposing forces away
A man is a man regardless of his faults
A woman is only deemed a worthy one when she keeps to societal expectations
Until the field is leveled for both sides
Until men are made to feel equally responsible for the success of their marriages
Taught to be helpful and counseled to be faithful to their spouses
The scales will always be tilted creating an imbalance
And sooner or later, one is bound to fall
Husbands and wives should love and submit to each other
A man who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord
A woman who fears the Lord shall be praised!
Source: joseyphina.wordpress.com
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If the load of marriage is too much for you, then share with other wives. Let your men marry for than one, then you can take turns in cooking etc. Throughout Bible times, men has more than a wife and had maids as well. Abraham had two wives and Hagar a maid. He had kids with all of them. Jacob had two wives and two maids and he had children with all of them. God used the children of this 4 women to establish Israel, his chosen people. If polygamy is wrong, Gods own people cannot have come out of Jacob. We have followed western culture and we are ***barred word*** suffering. they have 70% divorce rates due to enforcing polygamy. Even modern day Jews still practice Polygamy. Our fathers have always been polygamous. Women must know this truth for once. Any church that tells you polygamy is wrong is not a Bible Believing church. God told men to have more children to inherit the earth. Not more cars or houses. In Leviticus 18:18, God through Moses told men if they want more than one wife, they should not marry two sisters, but he did not stop men from marrying more than one. in Exodus 21 :10 he required men to treat all wives equally. Do not be ***barred word***, the white man said God created one man and one woman so it should be so. God created all animals in pairs as well, do we keep equal numbers of males and females on our farms? Didn't God gave wives of Saul to David? if he wants all men to have only one, will he break his own laws? Jesus did not come to change any law of the father, he clearly told us this.
Husbands suspect that these writings are done by ladies