Hamamat Montia, who is a former Miss Malaika Queen has hinted on the things you need to be doing to get an African man to know that you are ripe for marriage.
The Beauty Queen indicated that an African man would only consider you for marriage if you treat him like a king and take care of his needs.
The African Tourism Ambassador in a video posted on her Instagram page indicated that African men wanted to be treated the way their mothers treat them.
She then added that if you cook for your African man and keep his house tidy, you are sure in line to get access to his heart and his ring.
Even though the beauty queen admitted that marriage counselling was way out of her league, she was quick to use herself as an example and said if you take up the ‘motherly’ role in the relationship with an African man, he was going to definitely wife you.
Her list for such roles included cooking for him, cleaning his house and pampering them in a special way just like their mothers would.
Hamamat indicated that African men were sometimes treated differently than African ladies and they wanted that kind of treatment even in their relationships.
Source: Yen.com.gh
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But hamamat do u know some women will do all these during dating just to walk her to the aisle and just after marriage the will change? some are also good in cleaning the house and washing but dont respect. Most men too are soo phoolish that they cant open their mouth to talk over certain issues cos i know a man whom when dating the girl, all food brought to him by the girl was prepared by the girls mum and he knew but yet went along to marry the lady ad after marriage the lady still allows her mum to prepare soup and stew for her and even sometimes the whole meal to the extent of even taking the husbands cloth to the mum and siblings to wash, so what did he see in this lady to make her the wife? Now is the mother who is doing all the roles of a wife thats supposed to be done by her daughter. What i know is omen must be submisive but men must also support in those chores to make the marriage united, the fact that she is ur girl doesnt mean she should do ur washing atleast u can help her to do it cos now the women also want men who are supportive in all aspects
MY DEAR YOU ARE SO VERY RIGHT, THOUGH MEN DIFFER TO SOME EXTENT. BUT YES, THATS HOW OUR CULTURE DEPICTS. BY THE WAY PRINCESS MONTIA, YOU ARE ENDOWED WITH SUPER BEAUTY. PLEASE TAKE CARE OF IT!
You are somehow correct, but men of these days look far beyond just cooking, cleaning, washing and pampering , they equally want intelligent and hardworking woman too.
@hw3. You are 100% right. All African men are now asking simply is that, what are you bringing to the table? If you are not bringing anything substantial, go your way. Why this? My lady its because of what African women are saying doing, have become and blindly copying. They claim they are equal to men, independent and indeed better than men. A later day feminist clap trap. So men are saying that before I wife you bring something substantial otherwise the feminist divorce courts will clean me out. This is very simple. The African woman copied it from the European middle-class female feminist but what they didn't know and what the African female didn't see is that the third wave European and American feminist has been suffering from this for sometime thereby offering their glory on a silver plate. An action causes a reaction. The western system is now massaging marriage figures. It is good that women are independent, prosperous and all that but if it becomes a tool for misbehaviour, then the men are also saying put a value on your Tonga. It has nothing to do with wanting to be treated like our mums treated us.
Be submissive to that man, throw away all those ***barred word*** ego and that man will make you his wife!
Hamamat Montia i agree with 100% keep up and that is how it should be, let us respect our cultures, values and what we as an africans stood for.
Have u met the current crop of the so called African men? Well some of them? You can cook, clean, wash and give them your pride and joy i.e. Tonga all day and they won't bother making an honest woman of u. They will leave u for the next skirt if u complain. They will say u nag too much. BS!! I used to think that way until I realised that is farther from the truth. Now most of them have become opportunists looking for the "minted" woman from a privileged family like mr Eazi's girlfriend to be with and marry them. Some are looking for a long lists of academic credentials i.e. Educational achievements before they will be in haste to marry u. As long as the economic benefits are lucrative, they will surely walk u down the aisle. My dear, this philosophy doesn't hold water again ooo with this 21st century guys. The ones who appreciate the cooking, washing etc too, expect the women to be financially independent so they don't have to be bothered with give money for this and that. In short, most of them will choose money over this cooking and the rest u saying.