Outspoken Counselor, George Lutterodt has descended heavily on Ghanaian actress, Juliet Ibrahim for stating unequivocally that she wants to focus on her business and son but not marriage.
Earlier, the ‘Shattered Romance’ actress who was formerly married to a Ghanaian businessman told Sunday Scoop in Nigeria, “It is interesting you ask about wedding bells. I have always said that my focus at this point is my son and business. Creating a balance between being a successful business woman and a good mother is a lot to handle and that is my focus…”
“The biggest misconception about me would be that people think everything comes easy for me. They feel the outcome looks easier than the process and that is alright,” she added.
But Counselor Lutterodt said when a lady is marked by despair or loss of hope in marriage, then they tend to make comments such as Juliet Ibrahim’s.
He noted that comments such as Juliet Ibrahim’s comment are an acronym ‘MFS’ - ‘Mafa no Saa’, meaning ‘I will take it like that’ in relation to her current status in life as not wanting a man.
“When you get to ‘MFS’ you talk like Juliet Ibrahim. I pray that all those putting pressure on her to get married should keep up with the pressure till she gets married. The success of a woman is not being a CEO but being the head of family. It is men who prepare for marriage. Women don’t prepare for marriage. What men can do women can’t do…” he explained.
“I felt very sad that she wants people to stop putting pressure on her. I see that as one of the disappointments. The success of a woman is not owning a company and being the CEO. But rather making a family and making a man respected at the beautiful gate of the whole world…” he added.
Nevertheless, he further added that he rendered women who are proudly celebrating their kids without their dads are invalid as such they should do well to let their kids know who their father is.
Hence women who claim to be hustling for properties should know it yields no marriage as such it can be a burden for men to lay proposal at their feet.
“All the born ones who are proud and celebrating without men are invalid. If your son’s father is not around, let the child know who their father is. Make sure to marry a man who is not a boy but a father…,”
“If you could have married a lady you’re better off than making her marrying you. Coming down to Ghana to all the sisters who are hustling, the properties don’t give you marriage. It is a lie if they say they don’t want to marry. They are sometimes burdens. Monkeys play by sizes…” he explained.
“If you don’t get a man to marry you, buy a mirror and examine yourself well…” he said on Starr FM.
Source: adomonline.com
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to be succesful is not to marry but to fulfill destiny and leave this world knowing you have made an impact. marriage is not an end itself but could be a means to an end.
Definition of Success! Most pastors get it wrong & is sad how even men of God thinks they are fooling the congregation by chasing expensive houses, cars , great family etc. But nipa wo end. Some think success is been CEO, marriage, Pastoral duties etc. But when your soul is sad when you are all by yourself who are you fooling?
Nonsensical!
WHAT THE COUNSELOR IS TRUE PURPOSE OF WOMAN IS TO HELP MAN NOT BE TO CEO
'Asem paa na w'aka no,' and as the saying goes; there can never be a smoke without fire. I don't like hearsays but if what we are hearing is the truth then..... very shameful.
I'm reading through the comments and some people are giving example of gloria akuffo being attorney general and not being married,when she went to the vetting committee they ask her weather she was married or not it's bcos it not normal for a woman of her status to be single
To Ms Stop Lying: you know the number of so-called married women being beaten and brutalized by their so-called husbands? I'd rather be single than be with a raving beast. Stop lying and pretending that marriage is a fairy tale with unending happiness for all involved. Even Jesus was not married. So why this fuss???!!!
Interesting! here are some women Jesus had encounter with; (1) His mother Mary who was married to Joseph = complete (2) Mary Magdalene who was not complete because Jesus has to cast out seven demons from her; Luke 8:2 and Mark 16:9. (3) The adulterous woman = not complete; John 8 (4) The Samaritan woman at the well, who couldn't keep a man after haven married 5 times = not complete. John 4 vs 4-26. You are also talking about women who are married but can't give birth due to no fault of theirs; listen to what the Bible says at Acts 10 vs 38 " how God anointed Jesus of Nazareth with the Holy Spirit and power, and how he went around doing good and healing all who were under the power of the devil, because God was with him." It means some are under the power of the devil and needs healing/deliverance. Talking about people not being happy in their marriage; well here is where responsibility comes in. The fact that you are supposed to marry does not mean just get into it. People run after wealth and they don't seek God's will in such journeys hence the outcomes. So don't confuse the responsibility of man/woman with God's purpose or original intent for creation! BAM!!
In fact, I hate speaking ill about anybody who call himself a man of God but as for this, its way over board. Is it compulsory for everybody to marry? Why do we see marriage as the best thing be achieved? is marriage an achievement at all? Please, stop this ***barred word*** about those who are not married.
You quoted whaat is in the bible but go and read from genesis to revelation and see the total number of women who were in the bible with christ first in their lives but never got married, does that mean those women were never complete or what. It was aslso stated that womwn will be blessed with the fruit of the womb but someone is married has never aborted before and yet will never give birthin life. All one must do is to fear God and make christ first and the person will have a blissful life, someone is married with all wealth but not happy with the marriage, so many people are dying today cos of the marriage life they are in today. Someonw will want to marry without babies, someone want both, someone want a child not marriege so lets leave the lady to live her life as she want it and this counsellor should stop being judgemental and let her face her life withher creator. I think this Lutterodt even got to MFS 'mafa no saa' and that is what made his wite take him like that.